...you may end up asking for

- shortcuts
- how I did it
- more advices rather than trying to figure things out yourself

and I may be willing to give you advices even when you'd be better served if I challenged you
with

- keeping your presence to where you are now, so that you can see yourself what is it that keeps you wanting a shortcut out

- asking you how you would do it

- point you to the freedom that you seek until you realize that you are already what you are seeking.